Chan teacher's classroom notes, one for solitude and loneliness, friends and interpersonal class. I think that whatever is not on her classes, is not Fudan students, all the feelings she felt faint machine front, will be harvested.
1. What is loneliness? Lonely is the crowd to enjoy stolen, her proud, beautiful, completely the spirit of freedom. Alone that we have to have alone time, so that
2. What is loneliness? Loneliness is a disease, is a spiritual hunger. Since it is a disease, you need treatment. Lonely people how to find treatment? Way people paul smith shirts sale, lonely people always need the company of others.
3. Divided into two treatment groups. One is the need to build a network of interests, this is just each other utilitarian (really useful, but no real friends); There is also a lonely person each heating, which is inexpensive communication.
4. Carnival is a group of people lonely, lonely is a man of the carnival.
5. Alone does not seek the material world, introspection. (That is calm, I understood as a realm of supreme Bodhi).
6. Loneliness is no consolation cage. Because lonely people do not know what restless. Their ideas so poor and barren, producing a sense of self to grow tired.
7. He is more lonely than the fireworks. Fireworks bursting in the invisible, lost in the nothingness, which is a short release, accompanied by endless loneliness.
8. Loneliness is not posturing, loneliness is a state of mind. Silence may not be alone, alone without any form, that is the spirit of self-wandering lonely. Fitted out called impetuous, it is a vanity, in order to attract attention.
9. A true friend is a little world. We are very quiet, but not deserted. Inevitably there will be more than one person can not discuss the topic, this is a distraction from a undefended become a social. Three of the world is too crowded.
10. Time to go into a lot of things you can see. Either farther or closer and closer.
11. If you put a male and female friends of a friend as a backup, then you insult the friendship and love.
12. With friends is a lonely. But this alone better, than their own when it comes to ease of a person. Because real friends completely undefended.
13. Friends is a luxury, luxury things that are not practical things (gold, beauty). On this kind of thing have to meet, because a true friend, in addition to friendship, nothing can give you.
14. Friend is not a vassal, not only agree to compromise. Friends in the real world needs, such as cutting, such as consultations, such as cut, such as grinding.
15. Some of the so-called talk, punching bag, is the language of violence. Should not, This is an abuse of friendship. Friends should not assume this to vent. Soul mate, the soul of one, he she does not take my chores.
16. Friends should be useless. (Where Time with him will feel free. Doubted see nothing, but clear understanding of mind.
17. Real friends do not often link it does not matter paul smith shoe, every two or three years, over the phone if the person never left. Need to maintain regular contact so-called (I understand is: do not ever remember, never forget).
18. Two people wearing masks had no friends.
19. To maintain the distance between people, from the United States. Too close, the more we will see each other's shortcomings. Two stones into the water, too close too close, the more the waves interfere with each other.
20. People closest to the most cruel, too close, often do not see the advantages of each other bit by bit. (One day you are sick, your parents put your bedside medicine Jian Hao, when one day they say to you: to the table to take medicine! You not feel that they become
21. When I see all the time, I had a spirit of their gaze, the gaze is called miss. (Sometimes physical distance increases, the distance between people has become so close).
22. Too many people around, so we are indifferent crowd. Many of us like to travel, why? Because we want to find a place to no one about self-imposed exile. Why should we avoid others? Those that were interesting because they are lonely. I look for lonely pastime.
23. I do not install QQ and MSN, because I need my own time, a lot of things there is no need to share with others, intentionally or unintentionally herve leger dress cheap, I do not want to go into some of the dialogue.
24. Who is
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